Friendship (Part 2)
Friendship (Part 2)
Taggy, i've warn you before of downtimes. No more warnings. I am changing you to chatterbox. Buzz off ya. You have provided me with the ultimate 'BAD CUSTOMER SERVICE'. I am a dissatisfied customer. Humpf! Buai!
Nah. As usual, i am eccentric. Back to serious stuff. Everyone seems to be writing about friendships. Just read Fang's entry and re-read Eileen's one. Even Mel has change her msn nick to : 'Friends or Partner?' Is it really me or what? I seriously don't know. I don't want to know too. In whichever groups of good pals that i am in, I am always the 'disciplinarian'. Dirty job? No. Tough job? Godamm it YES. At any point of time that anyone is unhappy with each other in the group, i am always the one to voice out. Sort of a representative.
Yes, i am at risks of offending that party whom i voiced out to. But shouldn't all good friends do that? Visualize these 2 scenarios:
(Scenario 1)
Gal attitude is bad.
Good friends just keep mum and let the gal commit further mistakes.
Good friends slowly distance themselves from her.
Wa la. Gal lost all good friends and leaves her pondering on what really happen.
(Scenario 2)
Gal attitude is bad.
Good friends tells her the problem
Yes, things gotten unpleasant. Gal can try to change or sulk and be angry at her gfs.
If gal change, good friends still stay and gal becomes a better person to the society.
If gal choose the former and sulk, good luck to ya.
I belong to the Scenario 2 category. I don't attempt to hide my feelings and will voice out when necessary. If friends can't take it, then it's just too bad cause i am just being ME. I did hide my displease to a certain damsel in Year 1 and guess what, i started turning myself against her. Yes, good friends should stay true and accept you for who you are. But think about it, if everyone finds that your certain character needs to be changed, would you change? I would. Cause i know that my gfs have made an attempt to change me to become a better person. And most importantly,they have good intentions.
The role of a 'disciplinarian' SUCKS big time. Really. I hate it when i've to tell peeps their bad attitute and stuff stuff. But i'ii still continue to do it cause i love my friends. Maybe from these, i would ultimately know who my true friends are. And yes, the gal on the top of my list would be Mel cause this poor gal here has been through countless scoldings from me. As for Eileen, i've never scolded her before. But she still made it to the list cause ultimately, she had witnessed all these. Both gals are still standing by me after all these years, 9 years and 5 years respectively. i thank god for the precious gifts given to me. Gals, i love you both very dearly.
As for poly friends like Fang, Min, Jun and Wen, we are together for about 2-3 years. And I am glad all of us are still hanging on. But i certainly hope our friendships can withstand all sorts of storms that come our way. All of you came at different times and made an impact in my life. Nothing can replace you all. Nothing at all.
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