An old friend
An old friend~~~~
I met Siao Chia on Bus 189 today...coincidence man..kind of missed her..missed the days that we go home together from STC...as usual, the first question that she asked was:
Siao Chia : How are things between you and him?
Me : We broke up.
Siao Chia : Oh... (wide-eyed)
Guess our seperation really came as a shock to many people...well...i don't blame them definitely...my relationship with him have already come to a stage whereby marriage is the next step...everyone is expecting me to get hitched within the next few years..but then, nothing is predictable..i've learn to accept the fact that long relationships is not = stable relationships...people can stay together for years and years, even up till marriage and then, they divorced..i don't want to reach that stage of divorce cause i would certainly regret it...but still..i've always yearn for long-term and stable relationships..i never like the idea of 'having fun'.. It is just too cruel to play with other people's feelings..
As quoted from Siao Chia "Maybe Alvin is the right guy for you, but he just came at the wrong time.." Seriously, I have no comment...
Someone just asked me if i am a 'mixed' again...do i look not Chinese?? They came to this assumption after making some comparisons with the ladies @my office...they said that i looked too fair to be a pure chinese..well..these ppl haven't seen my mum!! Well, i do have Peranakan blood in me...i guess that contributes to the 'not-so-pure-chinese' skin tone..But then again..what's all the fuss? It's not as if i am joining Ms Universe or something...~_~
I met Siao Chia on Bus 189 today...coincidence man..kind of missed her..missed the days that we go home together from STC...as usual, the first question that she asked was:
Siao Chia : How are things between you and him?
Me : We broke up.
Siao Chia : Oh...
Guess our seperation really came as a shock to many people...well...i don't blame them definitely...my relationship with him have already come to a stage whereby marriage is the next step...everyone is expecting me to get hitched within the next few years..but then, nothing is predictable..i've learn to accept the fact that long relationships is not = stable relationships...people can stay together for years and years, even up till marriage and then, they divorced..i don't want to reach that stage of divorce cause i would certainly regret it...but still..i've always yearn for long-term and stable relationships..i never like the idea of 'having fun'.. It is just too cruel to play with other people's feelings..
As quoted from Siao Chia "Maybe Alvin is the right guy for you, but he just came at the wrong time.." Seriously, I have no comment...
Someone just asked me if i am a 'mixed' again...do i look not Chinese?? They came to this assumption after making some comparisons with the ladies @my office...they said that i looked too fair to be a pure chinese..well..these ppl haven't seen my mum!! Well, i do have Peranakan blood in me...i guess that contributes to the 'not-so-pure-chinese' skin tone..But then again..what's all the fuss? It's not as if i am joining Ms Universe or something...~_~
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