Note to all my friends:
Don't buy earrings for me at any occasion unless you're willing to splurge on a pair for sensitive ears. Prolly that might cost ya 20 bucks and above.
My ears have been bleeding non-stop. It is pretty serious this time round. Cause' i've filled up my bin with blood-stained tissues last wed. Hope my ears don't fall off man! Drats! >,<
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Met up with Min and Fang yesterday. Feeling extremely disppointed that Hj cant make it. Well, she has her own problems to settle. I shalln't probe. Fang initially wanted to leave at 10.30pm. She was still on her way to Bugis at 8pm.
Oh boy, that was one of the few times that i've seen Min behave like that. She was so so disappointed. Not that i was against anything, but seriously, it was a rare gathering. It's just so unfortunate that not everyone was present. And to think i thought i could stay out late yesterday and do the usual biaatching with my fav lasses. Perhaps next time. Just next time.
Well, yesterday was the night that i fully comprehend Min's situation. Her lonliness when everyone of us was attached in the past. I admit. I was really committed into my relationship in the past. Friends were never one of my top priority. Prolly the bottom few actually. Wei Xin ever commented on Min meeting her secondary school friends so regularly. It was as though her poly friends don't exist. I found the reason to it.
Her poly gfs were attached and they simply have no time for her.
I don't blame her for turning to her secondary school friends first. When i was with Alvin,my life was him, him and just him. Yes, my social life dropped drastically. No one was to be blamed but myself. I didn't keep a good balance of my life.
Yesterday night, i assured Min this. If i were to ever have a 2nd relationship, i would never neglect my friends. Yilan has ever gave me this testimonial in friendster, stating my capability in juggling between studies, relationships, family and friends.
She was wrong.
I actually failed in terms of friendship. But i did learn from it tho. Now, my Sundays changed from 'bf-day' to 'gf-day'. Oh ya, my sis 'single' status does help to a certain extend too. I like to drag her to town for a day of retail therapy. Shopping that is. =p
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Mel's birthday today. 30 April. She is off to Malaysia so prolly, aint reading my post. But never mind tho. 9 years of friendship. Knew her since P5. I think she was sitting behind me during class. Was in the same CCA as her, AVA-club. My official CCA was tennis actually. Don't know why the heck did my P5 teacher arrange for me to join AVA.
Anyway, we grad and went on to Saint Theresa's Convent. Boy, secondary school was the time when we had our biggest fight. Our friendship was greatly strained. Hot-tempered Leo + Stubborn ol' Taurus = No World Peace. (^^)v We got into the same class in Sec 3/4. I sat beside her. Worst arrangement cause everything worsen. In the end, Eileen has to switch places with Mel. Haha. I knew Eileen had this really bad impression of me. But it soon changed. Luckily*
Anyway, Mel constantly draw pics of everyone of us in class. Some were pretty realistic. Others looked kinda distorted. Sorry mel, i have to be honest! As for me, i absolutely love doodling on my textbooks and on my table. Yes, i vandalized my table with "Pentel Correction Pen'.
Gone were all those days. She went to NYP and Eileen, SAJC. We led our own lives. Meeting up only twice a year. That few hur. =) But that was just the norm. Well, poly has now ended. She would prolly be pursuing a degree in Computer Sci at University of Adelaide. An overseas UNI stationed in SG.
And yes, we would be heading our different paths again. =) Gal, study hard ya. And have a Happy 20th Birthday baby. =)
Don't buy earrings for me at any occasion unless you're willing to splurge on a pair for sensitive ears. Prolly that might cost ya 20 bucks and above.
My ears have been bleeding non-stop. It is pretty serious this time round. Cause' i've filled up my bin with blood-stained tissues last wed. Hope my ears don't fall off man! Drats! >,<
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Met up with Min and Fang yesterday. Feeling extremely disppointed that Hj cant make it. Well, she has her own problems to settle. I shalln't probe. Fang initially wanted to leave at 10.30pm. She was still on her way to Bugis at 8pm.
Oh boy, that was one of the few times that i've seen Min behave like that. She was so so disappointed. Not that i was against anything, but seriously, it was a rare gathering. It's just so unfortunate that not everyone was present. And to think i thought i could stay out late yesterday and do the usual biaatching with my fav lasses. Perhaps next time. Just next time.
Well, yesterday was the night that i fully comprehend Min's situation. Her lonliness when everyone of us was attached in the past. I admit. I was really committed into my relationship in the past. Friends were never one of my top priority. Prolly the bottom few actually. Wei Xin ever commented on Min meeting her secondary school friends so regularly. It was as though her poly friends don't exist. I found the reason to it.
Her poly gfs were attached and they simply have no time for her.
I don't blame her for turning to her secondary school friends first. When i was with Alvin,my life was him, him and just him. Yes, my social life dropped drastically. No one was to be blamed but myself. I didn't keep a good balance of my life.
Yesterday night, i assured Min this. If i were to ever have a 2nd relationship, i would never neglect my friends. Yilan has ever gave me this testimonial in friendster, stating my capability in juggling between studies, relationships, family and friends.
She was wrong.
I actually failed in terms of friendship. But i did learn from it tho. Now, my Sundays changed from 'bf-day' to 'gf-day'. Oh ya, my sis 'single' status does help to a certain extend too. I like to drag her to town for a day of retail therapy. Shopping that is. =p
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Mel's birthday today. 30 April. She is off to Malaysia so prolly, aint reading my post. But never mind tho. 9 years of friendship. Knew her since P5. I think she was sitting behind me during class. Was in the same CCA as her, AVA-club. My official CCA was tennis actually. Don't know why the heck did my P5 teacher arrange for me to join AVA.
Anyway, we grad and went on to Saint Theresa's Convent. Boy, secondary school was the time when we had our biggest fight. Our friendship was greatly strained. Hot-tempered Leo + Stubborn ol' Taurus = No World Peace. (^^)v We got into the same class in Sec 3/4. I sat beside her. Worst arrangement cause everything worsen. In the end, Eileen has to switch places with Mel. Haha. I knew Eileen had this really bad impression of me. But it soon changed. Luckily*
Anyway, Mel constantly draw pics of everyone of us in class. Some were pretty realistic. Others looked kinda distorted. Sorry mel, i have to be honest! As for me, i absolutely love doodling on my textbooks and on my table. Yes, i vandalized my table with "Pentel Correction Pen'.
Gone were all those days. She went to NYP and Eileen, SAJC. We led our own lives. Meeting up only twice a year. That few hur. =) But that was just the norm. Well, poly has now ended. She would prolly be pursuing a degree in Computer Sci at University of Adelaide. An overseas UNI stationed in SG.
And yes, we would be heading our different paths again. =) Gal, study hard ya. And have a Happy 20th Birthday baby. =)
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