immorality?
The changing faces of our society. Everything has changed. We can no longer compare the society now to the one 20 years back. People always say: "Nowadays, we are becoming more liberal." Another reply: "Ya ya, i totally understand." Seriously, how much do you understand? Do you know what is the meaning of liberal?
To put it crudely, everyone sleeps around. Do you know that most married men has affairs outside? The word faithful no longer rings a bell in marriages. Do you know that your bf could be sleeping with his cousin while in a relationship with you? I know this is incest but people still does it. Do you know that ladies sleep with bosses to secure their career? Yes, this is immoral as some people puts in but to survive, what's not to be done? Do you know that your brother could be sleeping with your wife whenever you go abroad? Do you that your girlfriend might be two-timing you at any moment in your life? Do you know that your boyfriend might be bringing other girls out to club when he says: "tonight is an all-boys night."?
Tell me, do you know all these? As much as i don't wish to accept the society becoming like this, i can't. It is because all those mentioned above were what i had witnessed. THIS is the society we are living in. Wake up to reality, life just isn't a fairytale. When society changes, we have to change to keep up. Please dont be mistaken. When i accept this change, i am just accepting the theory as well as the actions done by other people. I certainly wont tolerate my own bf or husband committing adultry or incest.
To be honest, i used to be uncomfortable with the idea of dating married men or a divorcee. But now, my concept has changed. I feel that when two are in love, there is no right or wrong. It is just the way of how you handle the relationship. If a couple is really happy with each other, why should we judge? Why dont we give blessings to this wonderful relationship? Let me just say this. It is UNCOMMON to see friends' relationship going so well. Even i faced problems with mine. So to me, a good relationship is just so hard to find.
Iii be turning 21 in a week's time and iam already able to see the problems of this society. All thanks to my boss and the people who relate their experiences to me. You have already step into the working society for many years but yet, you seemed to be way way more naive than me. And please, dont judge other people when you arent even mature enough to handle this society. Thank you.
To put it crudely, everyone sleeps around. Do you know that most married men has affairs outside? The word faithful no longer rings a bell in marriages. Do you know that your bf could be sleeping with his cousin while in a relationship with you? I know this is incest but people still does it. Do you know that ladies sleep with bosses to secure their career? Yes, this is immoral as some people puts in but to survive, what's not to be done? Do you know that your brother could be sleeping with your wife whenever you go abroad? Do you that your girlfriend might be two-timing you at any moment in your life? Do you know that your boyfriend might be bringing other girls out to club when he says: "tonight is an all-boys night."?
Tell me, do you know all these? As much as i don't wish to accept the society becoming like this, i can't. It is because all those mentioned above were what i had witnessed. THIS is the society we are living in. Wake up to reality, life just isn't a fairytale. When society changes, we have to change to keep up. Please dont be mistaken. When i accept this change, i am just accepting the theory as well as the actions done by other people. I certainly wont tolerate my own bf or husband committing adultry or incest.
To be honest, i used to be uncomfortable with the idea of dating married men or a divorcee. But now, my concept has changed. I feel that when two are in love, there is no right or wrong. It is just the way of how you handle the relationship. If a couple is really happy with each other, why should we judge? Why dont we give blessings to this wonderful relationship? Let me just say this. It is UNCOMMON to see friends' relationship going so well. Even i faced problems with mine. So to me, a good relationship is just so hard to find.
Iii be turning 21 in a week's time and iam already able to see the problems of this society. All thanks to my boss and the people who relate their experiences to me. You have already step into the working society for many years but yet, you seemed to be way way more naive than me. And please, dont judge other people when you arent even mature enough to handle this society. Thank you.
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